This book is for anyone in a long distance relationship whether you're desperately struggling or just looking to improve an already good relationship.

It's for you if:

• You fight often over text misunderstandings

• You feel like the emotional connection is fading

• One or both of you are jealous/anxious

• You don't have a concrete timeline to close the distance

• Video calls have become boring or obligatory

• You're questioning if "it's worth it"

• You've just started and want to get it right from the beginning

You don't need to be in crisis to benefit. Even couples who are doing "fine" discover strategies that take them to "extraordinary." Think of this as a gym for your relationship you don't have to wait until you're out of shape to start working out.

You don't have to. It's not necessary that you read it together (though it helps).

Three approaches:

Approach 1: You read it first, implement the strategies, and they see the results. When you communicate better, when you propose creative dates, when you handle conflicts calmly—they'll notice the difference. At that point, they'll ask you what changed.

Approach 2: Use the included "Partner Engagement Package." It has exact scripts for presenting the book to skeptical, resistant, or self-help-allergic partners.

Approach 3: Share only the relevant pieces. Don't say "we need to read this book together." Say "I found this conversation we could try" or "There's an interesting script for when we fight over text. Can we try it?"

Most skeptical partners become open when they see that:

• It's practical, not theoretical

• It has real scripts and templates, not just "communication is important"

• It solves specific problems they're experiencing

• It doesn't make them feel "broken"

You probably haven't tried everything you've tried generic relationship advice applied to distance.

This book is different because:

It's built specifically for LDRs. You won't find advice like "go to dinner together" or "take a romantic weekend." Every strategy is designed to work through screens, time zones, and thousands of miles.

It has protocols, not platitudes. It doesn't say "communicate better" it gives you the Traffic Light System, the 60 Second Reset Formula, word-for-word scripts for 15 different conflict situations.

It addresses the question nobody asks: "Should we stay together or break up?" Most books assume you should stay together. This gives you an honest decision-making framework to figure out if your relationship is salvageable.

It has a non-negotiable timeline. Other books say "someday you'll be together." This says "if you don't have a specific date by which to close the distance, you'll fail here's how to create one."

Typical testimonial: "I've read 3 other LDR books. They were all fluff. This is the only one with real strategies."

First: define "doesn't work."

If you mean "we still have difficult moments" that's normal. The goal isn't a perfect relationship. It's a resilient relationship that knows how to handle difficulties.

If you mean "we've done everything for 3+ months with genuine effort and we're still deeply unhappy" then you have valuable information.

Why this is still a success:

You'll know with certainty that you tried everything. You won't spend years wondering "what if we'd tried harder?" You'll have clarity instead of limbo.

Chapter 15 is designed exactly for this scenario. It guides you through:

• How to objectively evaluate if the relationship is salvageable

• When to fight harder vs when to let go

• How to make the final decision with clarity, not guilt

Possible outcomes after reading this book:

• You stay together and thrive (70% of readers who genuinely implement)

• You decide to separate with clarity and dignity (20%)

• You discover you haven't really implemented and start over (10%)

All three are successes. Failure is staying in limbo for years without taking action.

Depends on your situation.

If you're in CRISIS MODE (constant fighting, considering breaking up):

Jump directly to:

• Part 2 (Communication): Chapters 5-6 to stop fighting immediately

• Part 6 (Decision Making): Chapter 15 to figure out whether to continue or leave

• Then go back and read from the beginning if you decide to stay

If you're in STRUGGLING MODE (disconnected, frustrated but not in crisis):

Read in order. Each part builds on the previous one:

• Diagnosis (where you are)

• Communication (foundations)

• Intimacy (rebuild connection)

• Trust (manage insecurity/jealousy)

• Survival Plan (timeline and sustainability)

• Decision (stay or go)

If you're in PREVENTIVE MODE (new or good relationship, want to keep it that way):

You can be selective:

• Part 5 (Timeline) is NON NEGOTIABLE read it immediately

• Part 2 (Communication) to build strong foundations from the start

• Part 3 (Intimacy) for virtual dates and creative connection

• Skip Part 4 (Trust) if you don't have trust/jealousy issues

Advice: Even if you skip parts, read Intro + Chapter 1 + Chapter 12 (Timeline) these are universal and critical for everyone.

Absolutely yes and there's an entire dedicated chapter (Chapter 17).

What it specifically covers for international couples:

• Realistic timeline expectations: 18-24 months MINIMUM to close international distance (most couples drastically underestimate)

• Visa types and paths: Spousal visa, work visa, student visa which makes sense for you

• Financial reality check: $10,000-$30,000+ total to close international distance how to plan

• Relationship proof: What immigration wants to see to prove your relationship is genuine

• Cultural differences: How to navigate cultural differences that amplify distance

• When to hire professionals: Immigration lawyers, tax accountants

Additionally, all communication, intimacy, and trust strategies work regardless of geography.

Testimonial: "We're Brazil-Norway. The international chapter saved us from unrealistic assumptions about how quickly we could close the distance. Now we have a real plan, not vague dreams." Camila, 28

If you're international, this book is EXTRA important. The stakes are higher, the costs bigger, the complications more intense. You can't afford to "wing it."

Yes, BUT only if you're both genuinely committed to rebuilding.

Chapter 10 is entirely dedicated to rebuilding trust after betrayal.

It covers:

• Honest assessment: Is your relationship actually recoverable or are you wasting time?

• 5 Non Negotiables: What MUST be present to have a chance of recovery

• 12-Month Timeline: What to expect month by month during rebuilding

• Transparency protocols: How the betrayer must operate (full access, accountability)

• Managing triggers: How to handle anxiety and flashbacks of the betrayed

• When to give up: If after 12 months of genuine effort trust isn't at least 7/10, it probably never will be

Realistic expectations:

• Minimum time: 6-12 months of consistent effort

• Success rate: About 40-50% of long-distance relationships survive betrayal (vs 60-70% for cohabiting couples)

• Requirement: The betrayer must be completely transparent, the betrayed must genuinely want to forgive

This isn't a book that says "forgive and forget." It's honest about the fact that many post-betrayal relationships SHOULD end.

But for those that have the 5 non negotiables present: The chapter provides the complete roadmap.

IMPORTANT: If there's abuse (physical, emotional, financial), the book explicitly says: LEAVE IMMEDIATELY. No rebuilding. No second chances.

Couples therapy is valuable, but it has specific limitations for LDRs:

Problem #1: Many therapists don't have LDR experience.

They apply frameworks for cohabiting couples to distance situations it doesn't work. The dynamics are completely different.

Problem #2: Therapy is often too "process-oriented" and not enough "strategy-oriented."

It helps you understand why you fight, it doesn't give you exact scripts to stop fighting.

Problem #3: Therapy once a week isn't enough for LDRs in crisis.

You need tools to use daily scripts for when you fight via text at midnight, protocols for when you feel disconnected at 3 PM.

This book complements therapy, it doesn't replace it:

• Therapy: Deep work on attachment patterns, trauma, family dynamics

• This book: Daily practical tools, scripts, protocols, systems

Ideally: Use both. Therapy for deep emotional work, this book for daily tactical strategies.

Many therapists actively recommend this book to their LDR clients. One testimonial is literally from a licensed couples therapist.

If therapy didn't work: Consider that maybe the problem wasn't the willingness to change, but the lack of LDR specific tools. This book provides exactly those.

You can find free LDR advice online. But:

What you find free online:

• Fragmented articles ("5 tips for LDR!")

• Generic advice ("communicate more")

• No system or sequence

• Often contradictory (one site says X, another says Y)

• You have to spend hours searching, filtering, organizing

What you get in this book:

• Complete system from assessment to final decision

• 120 pages of specific strategies, not fluff

• Word-for-word scripts for 30+ situations

• Tested frameworks (Communication Agreement, Timeline Creation, Decision Matrix)

• Fillable templates (Intimacy Agreement, Monthly Review, etc.)

• Everything in one place, organized sequentially

Value comparison:

• One dinner out: $30-50, lasts 2 hours

• One flight to see them: $200-800, lasts a weekend

• This book: $27, potentially changes years of your life

Typical testimonial: "We'd already spent hundreds on flights and gifts. This book cost less than dinner and gave us more value than everything else combined."

If $27 seems too much to potentially save your relationship: The problem probably isn't the price. It's that you're not sure you want to save the relationship. In that case read it anyway, because Chapter 15 will help you decide with clarity.

Plus: 30-day money-back guarantee. If you read and genuinely implement for 30 days and don't find value full refund.

Total length: 334 pages

Reading time:

• Fast reader: 3-4 hours

• Average reader: 5-6 hours

• Slow reader or taking notes: 8-10 hours

BUT—you don't have to read it all at once.

Recommended approach:

Week 1: Introduction + Part 1 (Assessment) 1-2 hours

• Understand where you are, do the diagnosis

Week 2: Part 2 (Communication) 2-3 hours

• Implement 1-2 strategies while reading

Week 3: Part 3 (Intimacy) 2 hours

• Try a virtual date, start 7 Day Challenge

Week 4: Parts 4-5 (Trust + Survival Plan) 2-3 hours

• Create your timeline, implement monthly review

Week 5-6: Part 6 + 7 (Decision + Special Topics) 2 hours

• Read if/when relevant

Total: 6 weeks reading 1-2 hours/week.

Alternative: "Just-in-time" approach

Read only the part you need NOW:

• Fighting all the time? → Part 2

• Feeling disconnected? → Part 3

• Jealousy problems? → Part 4

• Don't have a plan? → Part 5

• Don't know whether to stay together? → Part 6

Implementation takes time. Reading doesn't.

15 minutes a day for 10 days = complete book read. Then implement gradually over weeks/months.

Yes. 30-day money-back guarantee.

How it works:

If within 30 days of purchase you implement the strategies and genuinely feel the book didn't meet your expectations, we'll refund your purchase.

To be eligible for a refund:

You must provide constructive feedback explaining what specifically didn't work for you or meet your expectations.

For example:

• "I implemented the Communication Agreement for 3 weeks but we still fight constantly"

• "I tried 5 different virtual date ideas and none of them improved our connection"

• "We created a timeline following Chapter 12 but we're still struggling with [specific issue]"

You are NOT eligible for a refund if:

• You request it on the same day of purchase without trying anything

• Your reason is vague like "This wasn't what I expected" or "I'm dissatisfied" without specific feedback

• You say "This doesn't apply to me" without explaining why

• You're asking for a refund simply because we offer one

Why this policy?

This book contains 334 pages of tested strategies, word for word scripts, and complete frameworks. We need to ensure people actually give it a genuine chance before deciding it doesn't work.

We're protecting the integrity of the work and preventing misuse while still offering a fair guarantee to those who genuinely try and find it doesn't help their specific situation.

What this means for you:

If you're serious about improving your relationship: This guarantee protects you. Read the book, implement the strategies for 2-4 weeks, and if you honestly don't see improvement we'll refund you with your feedback about what didn't work.

If you're just "browsing" or not committed to trying: This probably isn't for you. This book requires implementation, not just reading.

Bottom line:

We're confident that if you genuinely implement even 30% of what's in this book, you'll see significant improvement in your long-distance relationship.

But we're not here to give refunds to people who buy, don't read, and immediately ask for their money back.

Fair guarantee for genuine effort.

That's our promise.

Statistics confirm it works: <5% refund rate among people who actually implement. The vast majority see real results.

So if you're ready to put in the work: There's essentially zero risk. Either your relationship transforms, or you get detailed feedback on why the strategies didn't work for your unique situation and your money back.

The only risk is not trying at all.